Putting men’s sad little feelings above lesbians is something I will never do. I’m not sorry
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Oh look. Another piece of human garbage.
Lmao did I strike a nerve? Poor lil fella
Nah. I just like pointing out stupid shit like this when I see it.
See, I don’t irrationally hate people based on nothing but the first three characteristics to jump out at me, so I’m actually quite happy. It’s funny how much better life gets when you aren’t bitter about pointless shit.
And yet here you are being bitter about pointless shit lmao. Bitter enough to waste your time with a meaningless comment
Nah. Not “bitter” exactly. Slightly contemptuous, sure. Maybe a bit exasperated at the sight of yet another “fuck men” post. But honestly, mild amusement is what I’m getting most out of this.
It’s just funny to me above anything else how there are so many of you who don’t see the irony in hating an entire group of people because you believe they feel the same. Barring the fact that reality does not in any way line up with what you believe, it’s just amusing (and to some lesser extent disheartening) that you think that being an asshole to men will fix the problem.
Lmao boy you really don’t know what you’re talking about. Cry me a river
Well, neither do you. Also, “boy” is incorrect, but nice try.
I haven’t made any points lmao nice tho
I love it so much when egotistical self obsessed males try to desperately play it off as “mild amusement” when a woman triggers the cluster b insecurities and the narcissistic injury is too much to bear. It’s hilarious and almost pitiful. Sad. It’s obvious he’s sitting there wishing he could hurt you in some way, trying to assert dominance by acting as though he’s unphased by your hatred of men and his own feelings of inadequacy. Hes trying so hard to make you care…and the fact that you don’t and never will is really wounding him. Males are so easy to read…because they’re idiotic and immature and wear their emotions on their sleeves. Even over the internet, where it’s so SO easy to hide your feelings, they can’t manage to cover their childlike anger and frustration and need for control. Men are so weak….it’s just embarrassing. Sorry you can’t deal with the crushing realization that some women….hate you. Hate your mere existence. Or better yet, are indifferent to your existence. Your sad, pitiful, lowly existence. Your lack of personality, your petty insecurities, your ugly ass face. We don’t care about you, we don’t need you, and we don’t want to even talk to you. But sometimes we do, because it’s fun to toy with the childish, irrational, and easily upset male ego.
Bottom line: you are nothing. You are less than the scum on our shoes. You are a man. A sad, small, pathetic, weak little man and we are unaffected by your seething rage. Goodbye, you sad little child.
Books with Butch Leads
This list is for thirsty butches and femmes who need to read a good book. You’re Welcome.
- All the Pretty Things Rae D Magdon
- Departure from Script by Jae
- Second Nature by Jae
- Backwards to Oregon by Jae
- The Cain Casey Series by Ali Vali
- Homecoming By Nell Stark
- The Princess and the Prix by Nell Stark
- Micky Knight Series by J.M Redmann
- Emma Victor Book Series by Mary Wings
- Winds of Fortune by Radclyffe
- The Color of Love by Radclyffe
- Above All, Honor by Radclyffe
- Blind Eye Mystery series by Diane and Jacob Anderson-Minshall
- A Royal Romance by Jenny Frame
- Unexpected by Jenny Frame
- Royal Rebel by Jenny Frame
- Heart of the Pack by Jenny Frame
- Courting the Countess by Jenny Frame
- Sword of the Guardian by Merry Shannon
- Crybaby Butch by Judith Frank
- The Harder She Comes: Butch Femme Erotica by D.L King
- Sometimes She Lets Me: Best Butch Femme Erotica by Tristan Taormino
- Back to Basics: A Butch-femme Anthology by Therese Szymanski
- A Touch of Temptation by Julie Blair
- Playing Passion’s Game by Lesley Davis
- Built to Last by Aurora Rey
- Butch Girls Can Fix Anything by Paula Offutt
- Goldenseal by Gill McKnight
- Heart of the Game by Rachel Spangler
- Choices Book Series by Skyy
An emoji spell to bring love and strength to terves in February
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Ostara Oomancy
Oomancy, the art of egg divination, is a perfect activity for Ostara (the Spring Equinox) because of the strong association between the egg, the world, and new life.
You Will Need
- Two bowls
- Boiled (still hot) water
- An egg
- One white and one black candle (in safe holders)
- Moon water (optional)
Preparation
If it is part of your practice, cast a circle. As you sit with your ingredients before you, centre yourself. Ground yourself in the present moment by focusing on your breath, the sensations of your body, and your connection to the earth.
Casting
Boil a pot of moon water and carefully pour it into one bowl.
Set the bowls between the the black and white candles (black on your left and white on your right). Place the egg between the bowls and yourself.
Light the black candle and say:
Sister moon, shine your wisdom on this reading.
Light the white candle and say:
Brother sun, infuse your energy in this reading.
Cup the egg in your hands and hold it over the empty bowl and recite the following:
Sister and brother in equal time
Guide this vision and make it mine.
Crack the egg and, using the shell and empty bowl, seperate the white from the yolk. Drop the white into the hot water and read the patterns it creates as you would tea leaves.
Notes
Egg: symbolises the world and rebirth
White and Black Candles: represent the equality of night and day on the Ostara.
Newbie radfem: terfs and radical feminists are different!! I’m not a terf I’m a radical feminist!!!
Me: *sips my tea whistfully* terf is a meaningless word that is cast upon women to silence them. Those who use the word do not even know it’s meaning and simply use it against anyone including those who do not align themselves with radical feminist ideology. Terf is not a category of abusive women, but a category of women who simply do not bow down to kiss the feet of trans rights activists and genderists. Those women who believe that they should think critically of everything we do, and that goes on in society. My child, you will always be a terf in their eyes because from women who believe in biology to women who believe in “killing” trans people: It does not matter, because a smart woman who will not subscribe to a certain set of ideals unthinkingly will always be a terf.
You’re never going to cast the same exact spell as another witch, even if you try to use the same recipe. Why? Because the most fundemental component has changed–You’re casting the spell, not them.
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Emoji spell for obtaining more money with less Stress and effort
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Anonymous asked:
hi i really love ur blog and i was just wondering how you & your wife met?
pajaritafemme answered:
Lol oh fuckin man.
Okay, so a little bit of back story.
March 2017 I had ended my last relationship with a man, which was a year and a half long and I spent hardly any time “getting over” him. Lina had also ended a long term relationship, and was making super vague and depressing Facebook statuses. So much that I was worried that she was a suicide risk, so I decided to message her, because I wanted to be the friend that I needed. We hit it off immediately, and grew pretty close. Her birthday was coming up and so we hung out for her birthday for the first time and it was pretty awesome, honestly. There was one moment where we were in my kitchen, and I said something funny and she laughed. She threw her head back in laughter, and when she brought it back to level she had this lovely, full smile. Free of pain or insecurity, just a genuine smile. I felt it, in that moment. A little twinge of longing, a crush.
But we didn’t fall in love and get married after that.
Lina was still living with her ex, and still shared a bed with her. I knew what that meant, or at least thought I did. I knew for certain that if I had told her then it would have made things sloppy. She didn’t need me to make things messier, she needed a friend, so I didn’t tell her or act on them and tried to deflect on another man who emotionally abused me. Eventually I did end up telling Lina, both about my feelings and about Shitty Dude #7, and we went in circles (Which largely consisted of me saying, “I like you! But I’m scared. Oh but I really like you! I don’t want to be a rebound. But I really like you!”) I was scared of falling for her, I assumed she would eventually make up with her ex, that I was nothing more than a step in her Big Awakening Where She Realizes No one Else Compares. She, also having feelings for me, knew I would come back. So we talked about the elephant in the room, her living with her ex, and the next day (I believe it was the next day? It was an incredibly short time.) she kicked her ex out. I dumped Shitty Dude #7 and we kind of just beautifully progressed from there.
@butchradical Do you want to give ‘em your take on our origin story?
OH BOY
So yeah, we did originally meet on Facebook. After she first messaged me our friendship just naturally grew. It was the type that needed almost no effort. We were there for each other emotionally, giving and receiving advice. We would often send funny memes or cute puppy photos to each other. It’s funny, I told a coworker about our friendship and she knew we would be together before I even had any thought of it.
After the first time we hung out, we were basically inseparable. Nature trails and train tracks were our go to hangouts. Sometimes we would hang out at her house and watch tv but we were usually out in nature somehow.
The first time Birdie confessed she was growing feelings for me was over text. It started with her saying “I just want someone to play with my hair while I watch Prince of Egypt.” And I offered to. To which she replied with something along the lines of, “That would be nice, but I’m concerned of the outcome because, you see, I’m growing feelings for you as more than a friend.” To this I replied with, “I can’t say that I’m not growing feelings for you as well.” And that was the start.
I had gotten out of a toxic relationship with a woman who cheated on me and was abusive. And yes, we were still living together when my friendship with Birdie began and our feelings grew. This was without a doubt a bit messy. For about a week my ex would sleep in the same bed as me, but would wake up around 8 AM and go right over to my roommate’s room. Yeah, that’s right. She was screwing my roommate. I found out by accidentally walking in on them. No, she wasnt cheating on me at this time because we were broken up, but we were freshly broken up and it did hurt. She would text me things like “I miss you and I hate myself for ruining what we had” whenever I was hanging out with Birdie. But in person, she was the same cold, abusive woman she had been to me for that last year of our relationship. I was weak against her. But Birdie helped me see that I deserve better. I was absolutely tired and fed up with being treated so lowly. Almost every relationship I’ve been in was toxic in some way and now, I had finally met someone who’s purpose was only to build me up. She helped me in more ways than I can explain. Yes, she was seeing other people while we were “talking,” but I felt no need to be self conscious or worried or jealous because, how could I be? We both got out of relationships that were toxic. She was seeing out her options and in no way did I feel the right to say that was wrong, because it wasn’t. All I could do was be supportive of her, as a friend and as a, uh, person of interest I guess one could say.
When the day came that Birdie expressed that she wanted things between us to progress a bit more, but that she couldn’t put herself in a risky situation as I was still living with my ex, I knew what I needed to do not only for us to progress but for myself. I had finally built up the courage to stand up to my ex. I didn’t necessarily plan it the very next day I actually had no idea when or how I was going to do it. But I woke up to my ex being gone from the house and it was perfect timing. I packed her things respectfully, lined them up against the wall of the bedroom and when she came home I told her to sit down because I needed to tell her something. I was a bit scared because this was someone who would constantly put me down. But I knew I had to do it. Not just to start a relationship, but it was hell for me to be under the same roof as her and I needed to do it for my own sake. For once I put myself first and it felt great. I had a new found confidence. That day, my ex went to stay with the man she had been seeing. A week later she picked up the rest of her things and that was that. Birdie and I were able to progress on a stable foundation.
Our love grew quickly. There is nothing that I am more thankful for than the day that we met other than her existence. She has not only given me reciprocated love but has also taught me to know what I’m worth and to demand it and never take anything less. She has helped me grow in healthy ways. Every day that I wake up next to her, I just think about how lucky I am to have such an amazing woman in my life.
Lesbians and bi girls are always always always better than straight girls. They’re better friends, smarter, more talented, funnier, and c'mon have you seen a wlw before? They’re gorgeous. All of em.
Especially the trans and nb ones.
I’ve been sick for a full week, y’all, and @butch-viking has been the only person checking on me every day to see how I’m doing so this is an appreciation post. Girl, thank you. I’m glad we became friends, you’re amazing 🌸
N also her n her gf @theycallmemanhater are prob getting engaged soon so go show ‘em some love if you get the chance 💍👭👩❤️💋👩
Aww b you’re so sweet💖 tysm! I’m glad we became friends too!